It is said that in the next fifteen years twice as many men will be living alone, their feelings pushed into an increasing small container, a cage that will contain their grief best.
Wrap your feelings in the smallest vessel that will fit them. Secure it, from outside interference and corruption. Keep it safe from harm and accident. Then your feelings will be protected from the way in which fortune and events can change them and you will have them all to yourself, alone to live with them.
If you let your feelings wander free, unprotected, and wild, you will find they change and become feelings altered by those things that has come into contact with them.